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Would You Like To Meet Girls?
Men ask me about " understanding women " and "how to relate to women " and similar topics all the time .
But the correctness of the matter for all of these type of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better information than good old "experience".
But naturally the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I authored my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
I guess I should elucidate. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sanely selecting a companion.
Now I would be the first one to affirm that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and routine interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's recommendation and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
But bear in mind, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people usually continue this routine of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us.
Most of us didn't even know our own nature and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
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A Woman's Guide To Writing A Fantastic Profile For Online Dating Websites To Get The Partner Effortlessly
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Web-Based Dating Protection For Males
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Online Dating Often Ends Up Being Arduous For Every Man
Wouldn't it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.
How Do I Get My Ex Back After A Breakup
If you are coming from a hard breakup, and you and your loved one are at a position where neither of you are sure what is coming next. What you really want to know is how do I get my ex back after such an event?
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